All too often,we get discouraged and become disgruntled because things are not happening in our lives and careers as quickly as we think they should.

Oftentimes,we have done all of the work and paid all of our dues,but still the calls don't come and the letters too are non-existent.
During these times,it is so easy to lose hope,courage,and consider throwing in the proverbial towel. We just want a break already! After all, everything that we were told to do, we have done, but alas,the situation does not change.

What to do in times like these? How do we keep our hopes and dreams alive when all we see is more of the same inaction,and hear more of the same silence?
These questions plague me now as they have in the past,and I thankfully remember what I did in the past to add more meaning to my life when it appeared that change would not come.

In the past,when no action seemed apparent on the surface,I engulfed myself in serving others;I consciously decided to help others,if and when I could, make their dreams come true.

Frequently,we assume that delay in our lives or careers mean failure,but more often than not,there is no delay at all,but rather a conflict in timing.
Yes, in timing, my timing,your timing, and the timing that has been perfect throughout time.
I must remember when I don't get what I think I should when I should, that there is a "universal time" for all things to occur,and I must trust that timing in my life and affairs.
During "the waiting period", there is so much that I can do.
For example, I can focus on some area in my life that needs improving,and I can consciously work on growing or enhancing that area. Who knows,it may be exactly this improvement that is needed for me to fully appreciate what I am waiting on when it finally arrives.
Growing the self is always in season,and personal development is always needed.

As I wait for my "ship to come in", I can also help as many others as possible to reach their goals,to fulfill their dreams.
These actions take courage,generosity, and a genuine concern for others.
But by doing these things,I believe we will not only help others,but we will also grow so that when our ship finally arrives,we will be able to fully appreciate all of the "goodies" it will have.
Consider adopting this perspective in the future when it appear that 'waiting' has taken over your life.